About me

I have always been intrigued by relationships and power and my therapeutic style is guided by how each of us interacts with each other and with the world around us. It is important to me that I am authentic and down to earth when interacting with clients. I don’t want to be viewed as an all knowing, flawless being; I want our relationship to feel balanced as much as possible. I have the knowledge and experience of seeing and hearing and reading about ways to engage in healthier ways but my clients bring their own knowledge and power to our relationship and my job is to help you build the confidence you need to utilize your power and be reassured that you are most definitely not alone.

My practice focuses on relationships, sexuality, and individual struggles related to feelings of powerlessness.

I identify as a kinky, poly, bisexual, creative, crafty, cis-woman, a witch, and a mother to two human children and three puppies.

My Story

1983

A star is born

1985

My 'little' brother Jake joins the family

1987

Meet 'The Family' (my nickname for my very large, close extended family)

1994

My mom graduates with her Associates in Nursing and is the first woman in the family to get any college degree

1997

Awkard teenage years as a band nerd

1998

Still figuring things out (I remember smiling like this cause I didn't want to show my overbite)

2000

Junior prom (My uncle made that fabulous dress and was so mad when he saw my spikey collar and boots with it.)

2001

I decided to go with my girlfriend despite living in small town Oklahoma. (They rewrote the rules to stop girls from coming with girls as dates after this prom.)

2002

Early college life

2006

Meet my love, Clay... and move across the country to be with him.

2007

We get our 'Practice Child' AKA Coltrane

2008

We tie the knot between semesters (his for grad school and mine for undergrad-It took me a bit.)

2009

I graduate with my Bachelors in Psychology (A first for women in my family) and we have our first child, Aubrey.

2010

Baby's first Pride Parade!!! (Including lots of nursing in front of hundreds of people.)

2011

We adopt Fitzy

2012

February, I have my second child, Asher & my brother dies in a work related accident in April.

2014

We adopt Callie Ann & I get my big memorial tattoo

2016

We lose our first puppy after just 9 years together.

2017

I graduate with a Masters in Professional Counseling

2020

I am officially a 200 hour Registered Yoga Teacher

2020

January, we lose our Miss Fitzy. In February, through luck or something, we welcome our wild, white & brown haired Buttercup and little poofball, Dax to the family just in time for quarantine.

2021

Get new ink! (It's Vulcan, from Star Trek, and means infinite diversity in infinite combinations).

2021

Get to meet my love, Georgia, in Scotland.

2022

And here's the family as of 2022